You ever hear the saying, get enough at bats and you’ll eventually get hit. Guess what happen if you choose not to approach any women? You don’t get any hits, period. The fundamental problem men deal with is not really how effective their game is. Studies show that 70% of the problem is just taking the act to show up and swing. Yes, it’s OK to be concerned what the outcome may be but without doing it you will never know.
So here I would like to give a little bit of a pep talk in approaching women. Yes, it is great to have a few one liners in your back pocket. It is also nice to have some information on the environment and things you may bring up in conversation. But after you have all of that stuff, if you don’t in fact use it what is the point. This is called courage, stepping up to the plate. All that other stuff can give you more confidence, but without it many men still approach girls not caring. They don’t care about rejection. They are less focused on themselves and more focused on the girl. More focused on getting to know her, a sincere interest that cannot be denied once the courageous man walks up to the girl. She can at that moment sense it…or maybe she can’t. The point is he did it.
If you can take on more of this mind set, you will see your creativity, confidence, and game sky rocket. This is the key guys. I’m telling you, you may be a little scared and nervous at first. But courage is like a muscle, you have to continue working it in order to feel better about taking chances. I hope you take this advice into account the next time you choose to approach a girl.
