Step Up Your Game – Courage Is Key To Approaching Women

You ever hear the saying, get enough at bats and you’ll eventually get hit.  Guess what happen if you choose not to approach any women?  You don’t get any hits, period.  The fundamental problem men deal with is not really how effective their game is.  Studies show that 70% of the problem is just taking the act to show up and swing.  Yes, it’s OK to be concerned what the outcome may be but without doing it you will never know.

So here I would like to give a little bit of  a pep talk in approaching women.  Yes, it is great to have a few one liners in your back pocket.  It is also nice to have some information on the environment and things you may bring up in conversation.  But after you have all of that stuff, if you don’t in fact use it what is the point.  This is called courage, stepping up to the plate.  All that other stuff can give you more confidence, but without it many men still approach girls not caring.  They don’t care about rejection.  They are less focused on themselves and more focused on the girl.  More focused on getting to know her, a sincere interest that cannot be denied once the courageous man walks up to the girl.  She can at that moment sense it…or maybe she can’t.  The point is he did it.

If you can take on more of this mind set, you will see your creativity, confidence, and game sky rocket.  This is the key guys.  I’m telling you, you may be a little scared and nervous at first.  But courage is like a muscle, you have to continue working it in order to feel better about taking chances.  I hope you take this advice into account the next time you choose to approach a girl.

Shy Guy’s Guide

I’m always looking for new material to share with you guys.  Here is a post I came across.  Let me know what you think.

Bobby Rio, author and founder of the popular men’s interest and dating advice site TSB Magazine, recently released an ebook that offers advice to introverted guys who lack the confidence and know-how to approach attractive women. The Shy Guy’s Guide for Talking to Girls: How to Turn Yourself into a Smooth Talker was first published in December of last year and is now available for download on Amazon.com.

The Shy Guy’s Guide breaks down the process of a first meeting between a man and a woman that he is attracted to. The book addresses many common problems that guys lacking conversational confidence face in such situations. Then, it proceeds to tell readers how to overcome these issues. Rio’s insights include things like “how to recover from those moments where your mind goes blank and you completely stall out” and “how to escalate a conversation from something fun and playful to something on a more sexual level.”

The Shy Guys Guide also provides advice on how to hone basic communication skills like transitioning a conversation between topics, keeping the connection moving forward, and drawing engaging conversation out of the other person in the conversation. After covering these basics, the Guide offers readers a set of tools to help them move the first flirtatious contact to the next level, using things like innuendo to turn the conversation in a more intimate direction.

According to the publisher, the overall goal of The Shy Guys Guide for Talking to Girls is to get the reader to make lasting changes to their mindset: “What this guide is going to do is completely implant the skill of carrying a conversation with a woman into your game, brain, and personality, and make it a permanent part of you.” And teach the reader exactly how to talk to girls.

While giving readers the tools to embark on a mission of personality-changing and conversation-skill-development, Rio also offers ideas that can be applied immediately. He mentions the biggest mistakes that guys make during that crucial first conversation, and follows this up with a list of simple, immediately applicable ideas that can increase the chances of success. The book also addresses things like injecting humor into the conversation and creating a rapport with a woman during initial contact.

The focus of the Shy Guy’s Guide is in line with much of the content found on Rio’s seven-year-old website, TSBMag.com. The site is updated daily with advice about dating and acting confidently when approaching members of the fairer sex. The site also has articles about other men’s interest subjects like confidence building (“inner game’), college life, travel, personal finance, business, and sports. TSB draws nearly 400,000 unique visitors each month.

The Shy Guys Guide for Talking to Girls: How to Turn Yourself into a Smooth Talker is one of nine dating-related ebooks that Rio currently has on the market, with titles like How to Keep a Conversation Going: 9 Tools to Never Run Out of Things to Say offering tips and advice that compliment the topics covered in the Shy Guy’s Guide.

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/g/a/2012/04/09/prweb9377824.DTL#ixzz1rZISdPv3